I am in charge of dropping Addy off at daycare each morning. It's something that I don't really mind doing as she doesn't cry when I leave and she gets really excited when she sees the other kids. She especially likes this one little girl who is 4 years old and is always there in the morning. I also happen to like this little girl who is full of compliments and questions. Usually on most mornings, I will get a "I like your shoes" or "I like your necklace" and she also says something cute to Addy like "I like your red pants". I've grown so accustom to getting these compliments that on the days when she doesn't say anything I've found myself thinking "oh maybe this outfit doesn't look good" or "maybe these shoes don't go". Then I have to remind myself that she is FOUR and its ridiculous that I'm counting on her to give me an extra boost of confidence.
Well this morning we had an especially funny conversation. It went something like this.
Little Girl: "Good morning! I like Addy's shirt with the strawberry shortcake on it. I have a strawberry shortcake nightlight in my room. We live just up the street, where do you live? I've never been to your house."
Me: "Wow a strawberry shortcake light, aren't you lucky. We don't live too far away either & you're right you haven't been to our house before."
Little Girl: "I think Addy really likes me, she holds my finger & I really like her & I would like to see where you live."
Me: "I think she likes you too, maybe sometime you can to come to our house for a play date".
Little Girl: "I can't really play with Addy, she's just a baby. We can't have a play date."
And I was left thinking "silly me, of course you can't...I knew I shouldn't have worn this shirt."