Same But Different

 As we are getting closer to the first month of 2021 being done and the one year mark of this pandemic, I keep thinking about how some things are the same and yet also different. Cameron just started a flag football league. It feels awesome to have him in a sports activity again, but obviously very different considering that he has to wear a mask and there will be no games. Addy just kicked off girl scout cookie season. Usually a very familiar tradition this time of year, but this year feels dramatically different since there will be no booth sales and you have to limit contact with your customers. Cameron just had a pine wood derby car race for Cub scouts. Over zoom. Similar to prior years and yet very, very different. 

I think it's a good comparison for how I feel about the state of the world right now. We are still in a pandemic, we are still unsure of when this will really end and there is still a lot of uncertainty. All the same. Except now I feel hopeful about the plan, optimistic about the vaccine and relieved that it's the start of a new chapter. It is somewhat the same and yet very different. 

Wise Words from Adelyn

 This was a jarring week and not quite what I had hoped for as we started the first week of 2021. I had a very hard time on Wednesday, but tried hard to model the right behavior and allow our kids to ask questions. I'm not sure I did a very good job, so the next day I asked Addy to tell me what she thought about Wednesday's events and these are her words. 

“It made me feel sad, confused, and mad.  I was confused why this happened because it hasn’t happened before.  It seems like the Trump supporters could have taken the news of him not winning the presidency better than attacking the capital of the United States.  Especially since they were citizens of the United States.  It all seems like a bad and ridiculous thing to do that most people would never dream of doing. I hope those terrible people realize they can’t change the voting results because the Senate people still were able to count the electoral college votes.  They just need to learn to accept that he didn’t win.  Darkness cannot drive out darkness, only light can do that.  Hate cannot drive out hate, only love can do that.  That’s a quote from MLK Jr. that my teacher told me.”

2020 by the Numbers

There was a lot we'd want to forget of 2020 but I think what's most important is what we remember. 2020 was a year we will never forget. For our card we made a list of the top 10 things we learned.

10. Playing the piano is actually fun.
9. There is such a thing as too much family time. 
8. Zoom fatigue is real. 
7. You can never have too much toilet paper, but you can have too much hand sanitizer. 
6. Pajamas count as "being ready."
5. Working from home is the same as living at work. 
4. Everything is better at a lake.
3. Going to school in person is pretty great. 
2. Perspective is Everything.
1. We miss you all. Dearly. 

We also got a recap from our piano app which I thought was interesting and definitely makes us feel better than if we got a recap from hulu or Disney+ on how many hours of TV we watched. Here are some numbers we can be proud of.

• 378 hours of piano played
• 771 songs
• 1881 stars earned
• 1559 lessons completed

I couldn't and wouldn't want to count how many hours of zoom we logged, but I'm sure we also read a record number of books, listened to thousands of our favorite song, and walked hundreds of miles to try to keep our sanity in 2020. It wasn't the year we planned but I don't plan on forgetting all of the lessons we learned.

Ski Season!

 The weekend before Christmas we booked a ski getaway at Mt. Baker. We got 2 days of skiing in and stayed at this adorable cabin close to the mountain. It was a wonderful trip and our first time out on skis for the season. The kids did awesome getting back on skis and it actually felt normal on the slopes so you almost forgot about covid. We were going to ski the third day but it was supposed to snow 17 inches so we decided we better not risk getting stuck. 

The kids favorite part was probably that the cabin had a nintendo set so the kids (and Brian) spent a lot of time playing Mario Bros and tetris and other classics. It was a fun treat but I'm definitely glad we don't have a video game console, one less thing to restrict!